Ariana Grande is much more of a harmful girl than she let on, based on her new boyfriend’s soon-to-be-ex-wife. Lilly Jay, the estranged spouse of actor Ethan Slater, has damaged her silence on the information that he’s now courting Grande. “[Ariana’s] the story actually,” Jay instructed Web page Six. “Not a woman’s lady. My household is simply collateral harm.” The outlet beforehand reported that Jay, who welcomed a baby with Slater final yr, was “fully blindsided” by his relationship along with his co-star within the “Depraved” film. “She’s a wreck,” a supply mentioned. Slater has now formally filed for divorce from Jay, TMZ reported on Wednesday, including that she “feels he deserted his brand-new household.” An insider insisted to Web page Six, although, that Jay is “rightfully upset as a result of her marriage fell aside, however Ariana and Ethan did not do something improper,” as they reportedly did not begin courting till Slater and Jay had been separated for 2 months.